Hey all! I’m Jasmine. Some of you may know me as the Miss Friendship and Miss Charity of Miss and Mr Philippines UK 2014. Before I talk about my experience, I would just like to commend, as a friend and fellow candidate, the lovely Miss Yulee Foster and how she has actively utilised her title as Miss Philippines UK thus far, and I cannot wait to see what else she has in store for us.
Let me start off by saying, originally the idea of entering MPUK was certainly daunting. Ironically, a few weeks prior to the audition days, I was sure about entering, but on the last week to the actual audition, I seriously thought, “Oh God, what am I doing?” I found it nerve-wracking walking up to the auditions. I had never done anything like this before and had no idea what I had in store. Then I thought to myself, this is going to be an experience if anything – and in the end I was so right. Looking back at the time I had with MPUK, in the summer of 2014, there are so many memories to recount and so many things I gained.
From start to finish, an experience like this helps you grow as an individual. I definitely feel that it strengthened me as a person, as it motivated me to be more confident and it shed light on my strengths and weaknesses. It also provided me with the opportunity to become more in touch with my Filipino roots, having been surrounded by fellow Filipino people, the culture/traditions and occasionally, yummy Filipino food.
I walked into this process an individual and walked out of it with wonderful friends. I genuinely had no idea that I was going to get along with the candidates as well as I did, let alone make real friendships. Seriously, for the most part I had so much fun with these people that you forget that you’re meant to be competing with them. Each person was unique and added something to the experience. They are truly an amazing bunch and I am lucky to be counted as one of them. Belated apologies for all of the selfies that bombarded Facebook news feeds that summer haha.
The night of the pageant was unforgettable and went by so quickly for us candidates. All our hard work was finally showcased and though there were raging nerves, we all pushed through it and I am proud of everyone who participated – as walking on stage in swimwear is not as easy as some may think (note: if you are thinking of joining, please don’t let that unnerve you, as it is so worth it in the end). Let me also point out that the people who worked behind the scenes that night, deserve their own round of applause as you wouldn’t believe how much was going on behind the curtain.
Winning the titles of Miss Friendship and Miss Charity is such an honour. These are awards based on the support of people close to me and I wear the sashes proudly for each person who bought tickets to see me on the night, or for the raffle (for the Miss Charity title) and for each person from my MPUK family who voted for me (for Miss Friendship). I cannot express how grateful I am to every person who was part of me winning both awards. For me, that reminder of unwavering support made the whole experience worth it.
If you are thinking of joining, I really encourage you to do so. There are two things I want you to remember if you do join:
1. You will not be alone through this process.
There are going to be so many people who will have your back. The organisers immediately put you at ease, from the audition and throughout the process and want you to do well. Of course, you never know who you’re going to get in terms of the group of candidates, however remember that you are all in the same boat, all going through the same process. Trust me, making friends in this will make the experience much more fun and enriching. Let’s not forget, that you will have all those people cheering for you on the night who are there for you and believe in you.
2. Be(lieve) in yourself
Be yourself! Believe in yourself! This is how you are going to get through the pageant night with no regrets. Let your clothes be something true to what you want to wear and what makes you comfortable, rather than something that you THINK will win. Believe in how you present yourself. Believe in your introduction and your answers, because if they are true to you, it will come out more naturally. Don’t quote or say something that you don’t believe in. Don’t let any part of this experience be half-hearted. No one can be you, better than you can.
I am excited to see the show this year and all the new candidates that come with it. If you are joining, I wish you the best of luck, but urge you to remember to enjoy it! Can’t wait to meet some of you in the summer!
All the best,
Jasmine xoxo