Christa’s MPUK Experience | Part 1

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Introduction

Hello everyone! My name is Christa Borja, and I have been given the privilege to be crowned as Miss Philippines UK 2015. For the last couple of months, it has been one of the most unforgettable and truly humbling experience that I will forever cherish. Who knew what I initially thought was a ‘silly’ idea turned out to be one of the greatest journey of my life.

Unexpected Entry

It was my older sister, Chriszelle who pushed me to join the competition. In fact, I actually missed the audition and few scheduled rehearsals that made me believe I’ve dodged the pressure bullet. But thanks to sister’s persistence, she was able to get in touch with Yulee Foster, last year’s Miss Philippines UK Winner, and persuade the event organisers to take me in last minute – then boom. Out of nowhere, I received a random text message from sissy confirming: ‘Yahoo! Pasok ka na! Rehearsals starts this Saturday’.

First Day

My first day is a summary of sweaty palms and pits (yes I said it), Not only I made bad impression to Yulee for being 1 hour and 30 minutes late (which btw, I had a valid reason for), but I also sucked at following all choreos for Latin, Hip-Hop and Ethnic. It was interesting to say the least. I’ve always loved dancing since I was a kid, however, the problem lies to the fact that I haven’t danced in a very long time. I haven’t moved a single (dancing) muscle since my cheering days at university. And 2 years worth of unmoved body, I felt stiff, rusty and awkward throughout the practice.

After my torturous first day, I went straight home and asked myself whether I was wasting my time. Contemplations re-occurred and I started to have second thoughts. My schedule was already swamped with 9-5 working hours on weekdays and if I was to join the competition it would mean that my weekends would be filled with rehearsals too, therefore, leaving me no time to rest. I felt stuck so I began to seek advice from other people. While many of my friends/family supported the harmless idea of joining, one opinion struck me the most: ‘Pano kung di ka naman manalo? Edi nasayang lang yung oras mo?’ The doubtful remark fuelled more fire in me. From that moment, I decided to use the negative judgment to pursue the crown and show everyone that I was worthy to be called Miss Philippines UK.

The Journey

One word: Exhausting! I believe most of the candidates (even the previous ones) can agree with me on this. Rehearsals can be draining whether it might be the length of travel that some candidates have to go through; balancing either part-time/full-time work with weekend practices or the endless hours of catwalks and dance routines. Indeed it was exhausting however, the experience was also fun. Never in my life I imagined that pageants could be this tough! And it didn’t take too long until I started to rely on energy drinks and skinny latte’s as if I was back at uni on my last year preparing for exams.

Knowing that I had quite a lot to catch up on, I started my weekend routine strictly at 6:00 am. No excuses. Tired or not, I knew I had to push myself. I practiced the choreos early before the actual rehearsal at 12:30 pm. I even practised the Hip Hop on my head whilst on the way to work and on the way back home.

For a first timer like me, I had no clue on what to wear, how to prepare for Q&As or how to walk on pageant shows. I realised that if I wanted to win this competition, it requires more than just memorising the dance steps. It also involves embodying a mind-set of what a true beauty queen should be. So I researched some of the most iconic Filipino Beauty Queens from the past. From Melanie Marquez, Gloria Diaz, Shamcey Supsup to Megan Young. Believe it or not, I sat in front of my computer for hours! I studied different commentaries about how each stood out from the competition, how they presented themselves and how they delivered their answers effectively. I also took inspiration from MPUK’s beautiful winners: Jacqueline Llaneza (2012), Kallula Dixon (2013) and of course, Yulee Foster (2014). I took notes of what they wore, how they walked, smile and pose. It was all about preparations! As soon as I finished work, I’d go straight home and practice my walk on heels, smiling and posing in front of the mirror while my cat watched me with embarrassment.

The most fun part of this journey (apart from winning the title) was shopping for my outfits and deciding my hair & make-up, after all, it is called a ‘beauty’ pageant for a reason. Luckily, I had great tips from my best friend, Crescent Samaco, who btw has the fiercest catwalk ever. She gave me advice that if you want to stand out, you’ve got to sparkle like a diamond on stage. Not only she taught me how to walk with attitude but she also gave me insights of the ‘pageant must-haves’. For instance, nails must only be red or french tips; dresses has to be sparkly –gold, silver or nude; and accessories have to be bold – the bigger it is, the better. It was like entering a new world and oddly enough, I enjoyed learning these things.

Sept. 30 | BLOG-TEMBER CHALLENGE

Wednesday, Sept. 30: A farewell coffee date. Take some time to breath, sip a warm drink, and share with your new blogging buddies. If you’d like a prompt: how did the Blog-tember Challenge go for you? Any surprises? What was your favourite prompt, or what would you like to see included next time?

WOOO! September is over! I must admit, it was really hard to post something every day and considering that I only missed two days: “Saturday, Sept. 19: Tell us about one of the best days of your life” and “Wednesday, Sept. 23: Grab a guest post. Recruit a friend or fellow blogger to share on your space for the day”, I think I did pretty good! My favourite posts were the creative ones so look out for more of them on my blog, what posts were your favourite?

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Sept. 29 | BLOG-TEMBER CHALLENGE

Tuesday, Sept. 29: Write your own list of 10 blog topics to inspire us next month.

1. Events
Try and go to different events in your area and write about your experiences. It could be anything from a food pop up to a pottery class.

2. Story
Tell us a story either from your own past experiences or write one just for your followers (it can be about anything!)

3. Review
With so many new things to try out these days from apps to makeup, let us know what you have been trying out and whether you love it or hate it.

4. Characters
Who is your favourite Disney (or anything else you like) character? If you were a 90’s cartoon character, who would it be?

5. Fear
What is the one thing you are really afraid to do? Why are you so afraid of it? What could you do to get over this fear?

6. Letter
Write a letter to yourself that you can read a year from now. (I did something similar during the Blog-Tember challenge and it was really fun!)

7. Advice
Give one piece of advice that you wish someone had given you five years ago.

8. Earth
Where is your favourite place on Earth? Snuggled up in your bed? Exploring ancient Egypt? Tell us why this place is so special to you.

9. Hidden Gems
Name five hidden gems in the town that you live in. Maybe it is the perfect place to take a scenic view picture or the best place to get a burger.

10. Language
Can you speak a second language? What inspired you to learn? Any advice for people wanting to learn another language?

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Sept. 28 | BLOG-TEMBER CHALLENGE

Monday, Sept. 28: A day in the life. Take us through it with you.

Since I did not do the challenge on the 18th (Friday, Sept. 18: Record a VLOG! It can be about anything you’d like!), I decided to do two in one. Hope you enjoy my little vlog.

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Sept. 27 | BLOG-TEMBER CHALLENGE

Sunday, Sept. 27: What’s on your wish list? Be sure to include links so we can shop too 😉

Wish List

1. Kate Spade 12-Month 2016 Agenda
2. Shell Pink Faux Fur Box Clutch from New Look
3. Funky iPhone 5 cases from Electric Melon
4. Landscape Print Umbrella from Topshop
5. Home Bed Throws from Debenhams
6. Wacom Standard Pen Nibs
7. Cushions from John Lewis
8. DK20 Eyecup Eyepiece (because I lost the one on my camera)

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Sept. 25 | BLOG-TEMBER CHALLENGE

Friday, Sept. 25: Three songs you are connecting with right now.

Alessia Cara – Here (Vincent Remix)

I have decided to only mention one because I have never found a song I so deeply connect with. The first time I heard this song was on SoundCloud, so hence why I have the remixed version up. My favourite part of the song is right at the beginning where the lyrics go:

“Truly I ain’t got no business here
But since my friends are here, I just came to kick it
But really I would rather be at home all by myself
Not in this room with people who don’t even care about my well being…”

I have an introverted personality so whenever I go to a big party with tonnes of people that I do not know I can find it difficult to enjoy myself. I much prefer more intimate settings or as it says in the song, I would rather be at home. Since I have never heard lyrics of a song like this (talking about being by yourself at a party), I love its different angle and I am really connecting with this song right now. Please let me know if there is a whole collection of music like this that I am missing out on!

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Sept. 24 | BLOG-TEMBER CHALLENGE

Thursday, Sept. 24: Shout out five of your favorite bloggers. Who are your regular reads?

Girl, Unspotted
I have been loving Erica’s blog since day one! Her travels are so interesting to read about and her pictures are amazing as well. She also has a lot of love for the Philippines and it is making me miss it even more *sad face!*
Girl, Unspotted

The Chriselle Factor
Ever since she was mentioned on Michelle Phan’s YouTube page, I have been following Chriselle on Instagram and her blog as they are both stunning. From her family to her fashion, this woman is beyond chic.
The Chriselle Factor

Food & Baker
I know Jessica from Miss Philippines UK and she now has a blog! As a fellow food lover, I appreciate all of the delicious food pictures that she puts up and I love learning about new places to eat.
Food & Baker

Yours Truly, Micah
Micah was a former candidate for Miss Philippines UK and she has also written a post on my blog (you can read it here.) Her fashion and beauty blog has had a recent makeover (which I loveee) so I can not wait for more posts!
Yours Truly, Micah

Hapa Voice
Being half Filipino half British, I can relate to being asked “what are you?” Hapa Voice is a collection of posts by mixed raced people who want to share their experiences growing up in a mix of cultures.
Hapa voice

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Sept. 22 | BLOG-TEMBER CHALLENGE

Tuesday, Sept. 22: Get creative! Sketch, paint, dance, play music, whatever then give us a glimpse.

I love making collages and I would probably make loads more if I could put them all somewhere. The first one I made is a cover for my desk (there are ink marks etc. that I had to hide!) The second one has no home right now but I would love some suggestions of where I could put it!

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Sept. 21 | BLOG-TEMBER CHALLENGE

Monday, Sept. 21: A favorite quote/expression and how it has impacted you.

Would you prefer to be a big fish in a small pond or a small fish in a big pond?

When I first heard this in ‘David and Goliath: Underdogs, Misfits, and the Art of Battling Giants’ by Malcolm Gladwell, I was in University. So, for me, it translated to: would you rather be the best at a mediocre school or be mediocre at the best school? This question has stuck me with me because I was the small fish lost in a big pond and I could not raise myself to the standards that were around me. If I could go back in time, I would definitely change my University choice to one where I could have comfortably aimed for the very top grades. Obviously, not everyone works better in the small pond; a lot of people strive in high pressure areas and achieve their goals much better than if they were the big fish. I think the most important thing to take away from this phrase is to take a step back and realising what situation you are in. As long as you are aware of your surroundings and can understand the necessary steps to rise to the standards of the pond then you can achieve anything.

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Sept. 17 | BLOG-TEMBER CHALLENGE

Thursday, Sept. 17: Just for fun, your latest obsession. What can you not get enough of these days?

This is so random but recently I have been obsessed with watching home tours, but these are not just any homes they are tiny tiny little flats! I think I love watching these videos because it takes an immense amount of organisation to live in a place like that and I am also obsessed with organisation. Here are just two videos I have come across that I love:

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Sept. 16 | BLOG-TEMBER CHALLENGE

Wednesday, Sept. 16: The real you vs. the online you. Are they the same or different?

I try to keep the online me and the real me as inline as possible. Nowadays, it is more likely that you will be seen first on the web than in person, so I always want to try and make sure that I am well presented online. I do not wear any makeup (apart from rare occasions) so all of the pictures of me are natural and I would never photoshop any photos of mine. Of course, the online me does not have all the random and uninteresting parts of my day because I think we can all agree that that would get a bit boring. I always strive to stay true to myself whether that be on what decisions I make in life or what photos I post on Facebook.

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Sept. 14 | BLOG-TEMBER CHALLENGE

Monday, Sept. 14: The 5 books that have impacted your life the most.

Homework Planners Secondary School
Five years of my secondary school life documented in my homework planners. We would have to carry them around with us everyday for school so they were on me (or near me) for five whole years! I have thrown away most of them but still have my 2008/2009 planner (from when I was in Year 10), thank you Gabija (and everyone else) for all the decoration you put into them.

4 Hour WeekThe 4 Hour Workweek Tim Ferriss
This was the first audiobook that I read and I have been in love with audiobooks ever since. I also started going to university when I listened to this book and so it was a great eye opener to see the different ways that people live their lives on a 4 hour workweek.

To Kill A MockingbirdTo Kill A Mockingbird Harper Lee
I read this for my English GCSE’s maybe 10 or so times. Give me a formula and I can memorise it and use it but give me a book to read and it will take me forever to 1. finish it and 2. understand it. The story line is a now a blur to me and I still do not fully appreciate its significance but it is the only book I have read more than once, so its made a made a pretty big impact in my life.

Graphic Design Coursework College
Sadly, I left my books at my college to be used as examples but I absolutely loved them. I am obsessed with the layout of things and making things look organised and pretty and my graphic design books were a reflection of two years of realxed creativeness.

QuietQuiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking Susan Cain
Another audiobook find! Growing up, I was told that being an introvert was a bad thing and finally someone is saying that it is okay and even good to be an introvert. This book really changed my views on a trait that I believe plays a big role in my life.

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Sept. 12 | BLOG-TEMBER CHALLENGE

Saturday, Sept. 12: What are you up to currently? I have examples here and here. (ADD THE LINKS)

Reading… ‘The Martian’ by Andy Weir, well technically listening to it on an audiobook
Playing… ‘SimCity: Build It’ on my iPad 24/7
Watching… ‘The Great British Bake Off’ every Wednesday. My week does not countdown to Friday, it counts down to Wednesday!
Trying… to learn Tagalog using Memrise
Cooking… nothing, but I really want to learn how to bake
Eating… the leftover toothpaste feeling in my mouth
Drinking… nothing at the moment
Calling… no one, it is currently 9:30AM, there is no one to talk to!
Texting… my boyfriend, who has not replied
Pinning… photos of the Philippines, already planning what I want to do the next time I am there
Tweeting… blog and instagram posts
Going… to the gym, wish me luck!
Loving… how tidy my room is now that I have cleaned it!
Hating… the colder temperature, can it be summer again?
Discovering… that I could get a job as a professional organiser
Thinking… about whether or not I should become a professional organiser
Feeling… excited for tonight, Miss and Mr Philippines UK 2015!
Hoping (for)… a good gym workout
Listening (to)… the ‘Design Details’ podcast
Celebrating… my last few hours being the current Miss Philippines UK
Smelling… the cold air coming in from my slightly opened window
Thanking… my sister for reading over all of my blog posts
Considering… becoming a professional organiser/becoming better at writing so I will not have to keep asking my sister to look over my posts
Starting… to think about how much this gym session is gonna ache tomorrow
Finishing… my twelfth blog post! WOO!

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Sept. 10 | BLOG-TEMBER CHALLENGE

Thursday, Sept. 10: 10 items off your bucket list. If you haven’t made one, now’s a good time to start!

1 1. Live In A Different Country This is definitely number one on my list! I really want to live and experience what another culture is like. I do not have any places in mind but I am a self proclaimed summer baby so somewhere warm would be a bonus.

2. Get Into Great Shape
I mean, I want to be able to run for the bus without getting out of breath! It is not that I am unfit right now but I do find it hard opening water bottles from time to time…

3 3. Climb A Mountain This one is a bit more tricky than other things on my list and I do not really know how I am going to do it but, it is still on the list.

“Every mountain top is within reach if you just keep climbing.”
― Barry Finlay, Kilimanjaro and Beyond

4. Go Blonde
Being naturally brunette and never dyeing my hair or messing around with it, the idea of going blonde is scary but exciting. How would I look? Would I act different? Questions that I need answers to!

5 5. See The Northern Lights Ever since I learnt what they were and how they are made I fell in love with them. I believe this is something that you can never understand from just looking at a picture and you actually have to experience them yourself.

6. Speak Tagalog Fluently
This one is so that people will not be able to say ‘so you are half Filipino but you do not know how to speak Tagalog?’ Plus, it would be amazing if I could speak it!

7. See A Solar Eclipse
The moon is the perfect distance from us for this to occur. Any closer and we would not get that magical ring of sunlight; any further and the sun would just have a hole in it for a while. Amazing, no?

8 8. Climb A Tree I have never climbed a tree before. Even though some might think this is a bit silly to put on a bucket list, it is a very real dream of mine to get to the top of a big tree.

9. Go To Disneyland
And see Mickey and Minnie and all the Disney princesses! I love ALL things Disney and I really want to experience the magic of Disneyland.

10. Create My Blog
I really want to work on my blog and have tons of posts and pictures but I do not know when I can tick this one off… I guess I will just keep working on my blog until it feel right or, forever!

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Sept. 9 | BLOG-TEMBER CHALLENGE

Wednesday, Sept. 9: Write a letter to sixteen-year-old you. Any advice or funny stories?

Instead of writing to sixteen-year-old me, I want to write to sixty-year-old me. That way, I can come back to this page sometime in the future and read it.

– – – Do not read until 2053 – – –

Dear My Fabulous Older Self,

Congratulations! You have made it to the big 6-0! Hopefully we still have tonnes more years in us but now it is time to kick back (if everything has been checked off the bucket list) and relax. First off, I want to say that whatever you have done in life, I (21 year old Yulee) am so proud of you. I know that you have put your heart and soul into it and for that, I love you very much.

Being 21 must seem like a lifetime ago now but I am sure you still look as young, do not worry! I am sorry for all of the wrinkles you must have from me smiling too much but I could not help it and you know that. Right now, life is up in air after graduating and I have no idea where I am going to land but I am sure that whatever life threw at you, you conquered it head on. I hope that you still remember the teen and early twenties years and smile. There are some truly amazing memories there so please keep them close to your heart and never forget them.

I am sure that the last 40 years have not been the easiest but I know that you can always come out on the sunny side of it all. Thank you for getting us through adult-hood and I know that you probably have some other people to thank, so thank them for me! Now, I know that I am better at maths than writing so I will end this letter here. I can not wait to meet you when I am older and hear all about our life.

Lots of Love, Your Fabulous Younger Self ♥

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Sept. 8 | BLOG-TEMBER CHALLENGE

Tuesday, Sept. 8: Tell us about your favorite season. Why is it your favorite and what does it say about you?

Summer

Being a winter baby, it is probably more likely for me to enjoy the snow, the warm hot chocolate by the Christmas tree and the piles of layers you have to wear but… I do not like the winter at all! I always say it was because I was born in the Philippines where it is hot all year round that I prefer the summer. In the UK our spring and autumn seasons are not well defined, for example, now it is early September which would be considered as early autumn but it feels more like the middle of November! So my bias towards summer is slightly skewed but, that is the weather we have in London.

One reason I love summer sooo much is the early sunrises and late sunsets. The days are so much longer to enjoy and it makes me feel a million times better seeing the sun out and clear bright blue skies all the time. Ice-creams are also a must in the summer time whilst sitting outside having a BBQ with the family catching all that gorgeous sunlight, you can not do that in the winter! The summer time just boosts my mood ten times over and hopefully one day I will be able to live somewhere where it is summer all year round.

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Sept. 6 | BLOG-TEMBER CHALLENGE

Sunday, Sept. 6: Share your style. What fashion trends do you love, frequent, or avoid?

At the start of the year, I wrote down that one of my New Years resolutions would be to sort out my fashion. I do not have a defined style instead, I prefer to wear what feels comfortable and what I think looks good on me. My style has changed over the years but because I do not have many photos of my outfits before my braces were taken off, I shall start my style story during my college years:

I used to wear a LOT of oversized pieces in college and I would always layer up my outfits. Tights were a must have in my wardrobe for all seasons since I wore shorts practically every other day. My hair was super long so at school, it would usually be in a bun or a pony tail, quick and easy styles for the morning (I am currently trying to grow my hair out but I do not know if I could manage all of it again!)

I used to call my look ‘hobo chic’ because of all the layers I would wear and how my tops were usually two sizes too big! I tried to shop all around, from the high street at Primark to vintage at Rokit, I do not think this was the smartest idea since I did not have enough personal style to pull off vintage finds but it was fun to look around at different places. Looking back, I do not hate my style, it suited me at the time and I wish I would wear more shorts these days. I think it was just a matter of time I grew out of my oversized baggy look.

When I started university three years ago, my staple outfit for most days was jeans, a top, maybe a jumper or hoodie and my leather jacket from TopShop. It is no fuss and it is comfy to wear all day. Lately, I have been loving high waisted jeans and more of a crop top style look but still, it is just a variation of jeans and a tee that I feel I have been wearing for ages. Nowadays, I probably only spend money in TopShop and H&M and a few other high street stores because I know that they always do really nice clothes.

I have been wanting for a while to pin down my style into a few words for a while but it is so hard to do. My sister wants me to go for a wearable hip hop look but I do not think that it reflects my personality that well. Right now, I would call my style ‘over-thought comfort’, I like to be comfortable with whatever I am doing for the day but I spend way too much time fussing over my outfit. I would like in the future just to pull an outfit together super quickly, look chic and put together but still have an element of comfort built into it as well.

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